Is the cross pendant very small?

Yes. The pendant is about 7.5 mm wide and 5.5 mm tall, so it sits close to the collarbone and reads as a delicate accent rather than a bold cross.

Can I wear it in the shower or pool?

The maker describes it as waterproof and non-tarnish. Solid gold and sterling silver hold up best to repeated water exposure; gold filled wears over time with harsh chemicals.

What is the difference between the metal options?

Sterling silver is a solid silver alloy, 14K rose gold filled is a thick layer of gold over a base metal, and 14K solid gold is gold all the way through. Solid gold is the most durable and the most expensive.

Does the lifetime warranty cover tarnishing?

The maker states a lifetime warranty but does not spell out what it covers. Ask the seller directly whether tarnish, chain breakage and stone loss are included before buying.

It works well as a gift for a baptism, confirmation or a difficult season, given the small, personal design. Check the chain length and metal preference first, since those are hard to change later.