Is this real gold or gold plated?

It is solid 14k yellow gold, stamped 14 KT, not plated or gold filled. That means the color runs through the metal and will not flake or wear off.

How big is the cross in person?

The cross is about 9.5 mm long and 7.6 mm wide, roughly the size of a pencil eraser. It is a small, subtle pendant, so expect a dainty look rather than a statement piece.

Can I wear it in the shower or to bed?

Solid 14k gold handles water and daily wear fine. The thin chain is the weak point, so take it off for heavy activity or sleeping if you want to avoid kinks.

What chain length does it come with?

It comes on an 18-inch chain, which sits at the collarbone on most women. There is no adjustable extender, so check that length suits you before buying.

Is it a good gift for a confirmation or baptism?

Yes. A small 14k cross is a common religious gift, and it arrives boxed. The delicate size suits teens and adults rather than young children.

How does it compare with a gold-plated cross necklace?

Solid 14k gold costs more but will not tarnish, flake or turn your skin green, and it can be cleaned and worn for years. Plated versions look similar at first but wear through with daily use.