Is a wooden headboard comfortable to lean on?

It is firm. Wood gives support but no cushioning, so reading or watching TV in bed is less soft than with an upholstered headboard. A pillow behind the back helps.

How does it compare with an upholstered headboard?

Wood is easier to wipe clean, will not sag and does not collect dust the way fabric does. Upholstered headboards win on comfort and soften the look of a bedroom.

Does it fit a standard bed frame?

Headboards usually attach to a matching frame or to the wall, and mounting hardware varies by bed. Confirm the attachment type and bed size before buying.

Is it worth it over a cheaper metal headboard?

Wood gives a warmer look and a solid feel that thin metal often lacks. If you want padding or built-in features, neither wood nor basic metal will give you that.

What should I check before ordering?

Check the mounting method, the height you want above the mattress, and the wood finish against your other furniture. The mixed ratings make the finish and fittings worth a close look.