Can I put my own initials or name on it?

Yes. The monogram is the point of the design: you supply the letters and they are printed in the bright pink retro typeface. Check the spelling and letter order before ordering, since personalized items are made specifically for you.

Shoulder tote or cross-body: which should I pick?

The shoulder tote hangs from shorter handles and suits quick errands and carrying by hand. The cross-body version adds a longer strap so the bag stays on you hands-free, which is better for travel and crowded places.

Is the medium or large size better for everyday use?

Medium handles a phone, wallet, keys and a small water bottle without feeling bulky. Large is the better pick for shopping, gym gear or a laptop, but a fabric tote that big sags when lightly loaded.

How does this compare with a plain canvas tote?

A plain canvas tote from a bag brand usually wins on stitching, base support and interior pockets. This one wins on personalization: the monogram and retro print make it a gift or statement piece rather than a generic carry-all.

Will the print hold up to washing?

Printed fabric totes generally survive gentle hand washing and air drying better than machine cycles. Avoid hot water, bleach and a hot dryer, which can fade the pink ink and shrink the fabric.